Damn its my B-day and I made a killing in Poker! Plus we have a new African American President!

Like Ice Cube Said

Today was a good Day

I got a question in response to my previous Blog post, you can find it here.

“How do I go about getting a good lifestyle… if I am the guy who goes to work then goes sargin and that’s it?”

This is a very good question in my opinion a guy with a great lifestyle has a better time in getting a women and maintaining/ keeping her around. If you have a nice/great lifestyle it become a lot easier to bring women into your world. Not only that it gives you a better opportunity to be spontaneous and we all know women enjoy spontaneity. So here is a basic outline on how to go about it.

There are 3 main parts of a persons that make a lifestyle.

1. Career: Your course of successive situations that make up your personal work life.

2. Social: This refers to a multitude of social interactions, regulated by social norms, between two or more people. Its time to stop being a loner!

3. Personal: These are choices contributing to one’s personal identity.

Make a list of all the cool stuff you always wanted to do( from any age). For me a couple of things are:

• Fly a jet : Since I was a kid I wanted to be a pilot. I cant be a pilot because I have has 7 broken bones bas vision and am hearing impaired form 1 ear. But I can still take flying lessons!

• Cycle in a major event : Ever since I was a kid I loved bikes I used to ride freestyle bikes back in the day. I feel like I am to old for that now so I switched up to Mountain Biking.

• Travel the world: I love to travel, when ever I fond to ( and have money) I try to travel.

• Martial arts: I have trained in various martial arts.

The list goes on but you guys get the idea. Now try to set specific dates and time when you can accomplish these. Next mark it on your calender and follow through with it. Some of these activities might require you to attend more than others.

Next Make a list of Fun SOCIAL activities that you can attend on a regular basis, such as:

• Wine tasting

• Dance classes

• Mixers

• Cooking classes

A great place for this is Meetup.com

Finally make a list of PERSONAL things that you can do for yourself that will make you feel good.

• Feed the homeless

• Charity work

• Marathons

• Study/Do Art, Cars or Photography

• Gym

• Gardening

• Build SOMETHING!

Next evaluate your life and eliminate( or cut down) things that prevent you from meeting people or being active. Such things might be:

• Playing to many Video Games ( WOW, Starcrack)

• Playing to many Card games ( Magic)

• Watching to many TV shows or just plain watching to much T.V

• Masturbating

Here are a couple of things that can lead you to having a great lifestyle.

1. No Geeky stuff (well most of it) You can not base you social life or personal life on a movie, game, or anything that keeps you on a couch.

2. Have at least 2 activities that you can do that are physical.

3. Do something social that allows you to experience different environments ( Parks, Trails, Venues and atmospheres)

4. Have 1 specific activity that helps someone out.

5. Have FUN!

If you are just starting out and have AA it is better to focus on sarging 4x a week for about 2 months so you can over come AA. Once AA is no longer an issue it is time to begin to to build a well balanced lifestyle.

“Women want a man who has a Purpose in Life, not who’s Purpose in life is to get women”

-I forgot who said this-

So with work and my schedule I have time to do Day Game again. Now it has been a while since I ran day game, and I have had success in the past. For the most part I only do Night Game and very little Day Game. So Since I have the opportunity to actually run consistent Day Game I thought I would Brush of the webs and get back into the swing of things.

Well as you can tell once you are rusty it takes a little while to get back your groove. So the first day I ran way too much BT. It was almost Identical to my night game. Big Whoops! Second day I couldn’t get the number or Insta-Date. I was getting a vibe like the girl wasn’t to sure if I was for real. I couldn’t put my finger on it. So I give Man Cannon a call since I pretty much consider him a Day Game Expert.

We talk and discuss and we compared thoughts Ideas and past experiences. In no time soon we came to the conclusion that I was still running way too much BT. After this I went back to and took a glance at my notes and journals.

The next day I went out better prepared and managed to get an Insta-Date with someone.

There are a couple of things that I forgot to take into account, they are small minor things but without them my Day Game was uncalibrated.

The One Things that I totally forgot and its the reason why people say that Day Game is just Night Game toned down is they way she perceives her environment and how she perceives her environment views her.

For one the way she dresses during the day is different from the way she dresses at night. Now even though its the same HB based on what she wears her environment has a different view. During the day she knows that she is not being objectified as much as at night. She knows that at night time she is going to attract all sorst of guys (good and bad) and there for has to protect her self  from the lovable losers while trying to find someone interesting.

In short she has to filter a lot more at night and less in the day. This is one of the reason that there needs to be less attraction during the day. At night you have to put in more work to get your foot in the door (attraction) so you can play the game (comfort).

Back to Gaming.

I don’t believe that everyone is progressing as fast as they should so I decided to put together a lil short and easy list of thing that I believe will speed up progress.

Getting good at the game is easy! Becoming a better man is the hard part. -4five6 aka Ozziesaurus Mex

APB always says “Pick Up is a Sport” I truly believe that it is and thus should be learned as one. The great thing about pick up is that anyone can play and play it ANYWHERE! This is one of the few things in life where everyone can be on the same playing field competing with each other no matter what the skill level is. Pick up to me is the Big Game, whenever I am out I know that I can potently find the women of my dreams if not then I can find my next best FB, the girl who will give amazing head, or some crazy bitch who will give me a great story to tell. So with all those options I would be a fool to go into the big game not knowing some of the basics.

Imagine yourself in the Nba finals and you cant even dribble the ball? Thats what I constantly see when I go out. Guys who don’t need to open 293846239 sets but they still do, or guys that constantly get stuck in the same phase.

Now to me Game is just an extension of your personality it just a small part of who you are. Its a means of self expression that allows you to navigate through the intricate maze social/dating dynamics. So if the big piece of who you are is crap then the small piece that is game is also going to crap.

So what I want to focus is 1. Personality/lifestyle 2. How to practice a sport.

Personality/Lifestyle
Now personality is a very difficult thing to cultivate if over the years you have not put yourself or been put into a situation that will allow your personality to grow. So IMO sarging is one of the slowest way of cultivating a great personality. Why? Because most guys that have a weak personality tend to have a weak lifestyle also. So what most people tend to do is go from a 9-5 job go home relax and get ready to go out at night. They just work – sarge at that’s it, there is nothing more to them.Or even worse they play StarCrack for 3475 hrs

So what cultivates a good personality?

This is where I believe lifestyle some into play. The guys who are into sports or other activities (wine, building shit, Martial arts, music, art) tend to have an easier time maintaining good personal relationships with people around them (aka they are not weird) it is through these activities that they learn how to joke with other guys and how to interact with women as well. So get a Life!

This is why you see most of the top guys go to a bar and just chill… they don’t go out to sarge but if the opportunity is there and they see something they like they most likely go for it. This is also why the top guys can have 1 or more long term girls at a time. If you have a very shitty lifestyle the chances of a girl sticking around are not very good.
How to practice:

Now since we know that reading 2343342 e-books downloading 23432 videos isn’t as effective as we thought it would be there has to be a better option.

Well like in any sport you have to learns the rules, that is the easy part any articles will teach you this online. Now the trick is to actually practice before you go out to play the big game. Some of us though are naturally gifted and have to practice less than others, while other have to practice more.

So if we take any sport and break it down there are fundamentals to it just like in Pick Up. For example if we take Basketball you have to first learn how to dribble then pass after that you can move up to shooting and layups.

Well if we take Pick Up we can break it down into fundamentals also. You cant work on your seduction before comfort if you cant get attraction first. But before all that you have to open and open strong.

I am going to digress a little here for a second. Imagine you are at the finals and the spot light is on you .You run out to the field looking nervous and you end up kicking the ball while trying to dribble not biggie right it Pick Up and 30 seconds later you get another chance…but this time the same thing happens. Now after this happens night after night for a while who wouldn’t get frustrated and begin to lose confidence? Especially if you believe you have a crowd watching you.

Lets take another example you are at the free throw line and you don’t know how to shoot a free( and its the big game) throw how confident would you be? Wouldn’t your lack of experience and anxiety make it more difficult on you?

But what if you practiced in your back yard, park or gym? Lets say you have shot 500 free throws (or 500 sets), now you can imagine yourself making the shot, you can imagine the ball going in. How much easier would that be?

Now back to the topic.

Since we know we half to open the set ask yourself this what are your 3 openers? Do you even have 3?

Now the reason I say 3 is because there might be different situation that you encounter that will need you to adjust. Having 1 or 2 as a beginner is not enough in my opinion.

How many time have you sat down and practiced the opener in front of the mirror?

This is real important since delivery is key. With today’s modern technology it should not be a problem for anyone to get a camera and record.

What is attraction?

A lot of guys don’t know what attraction is and yet they still go out night after night and attempt to some how get,generate, or create it.

What are you trying to convey?

A lot of guys just go out and have no clue as to what the message that they want to get across is. So since they don’t know they just x-copy routines and you see guys twirling girls till they are dizy and giving them 4355 high fives.

What are your stories?

Whether you like it or not you will be repeating your self to girls. There is no way you can come up with different stuff to talk about with every different girl. Your stories are one way of conveying who you are to her.

Have you practiced your stories?

Write down your stories and read the out loud, do they make sense?

Are they communicating who you are?

This is where lifestyle comes back into play. If you have a nice exciting lifestyle then you should have plenty to chat about. On the flip side if you lead a very boring life then the conversation will most likely be boring.

You would be surprised how many people don’t practice shit until they are out. Practice,Practice,Practice then go out and Practice. It really makes a difference just look at the guys who have been at this for 4-5 years and still have a hard time getting laid…ask them what attraction is or ask them about their stories and guess what the answer is!

This is why we give you guys Pre-Homework and that FAT book with stuff to work on AFTER the bootcamp.

Its not that hard.

Some men carry ‘commitment-phobia’ gene

Forget the prenup. Couples pondering whether to tie the knot should proceed straight to gene testing.

Well, that’s one conclusion you can draw from a study in this week’s Proceedings of the National Academy of Science. Researchers at the Karolinksa Institute in Sweden examined a gene allele 334 in people enrolled in the Twin and Offspring Study in Sweden. This gene can affect the production of a hormone called vasopressin, which has been shown to influence monogamy in animals. They found that men who had two copies of allele 334 were twice as likely to have had a marital or relationship crisis in the last year compared with those who lacked the gene variant.

These men seemed less able to bond with their partners, says lead author Hasse Walum, a postgraduate student in medical epidemiology and biostatistics. “Women married to men who carry one or two copies of allele 334 were, on average, less satisfied with their relationships than women married to men who didn’t carry this allele.

But, men, if you’re tempted to use genes as an excuse for bad behavior, forget about it. Walum notes that though the study may shed some light on the genetic underpinnings of human bonding, “there are, of course, many reasons why a person might have relationship problems.”

Walum’s research is aimed at improving the understanding of vasopressin and its role in disorders such as autism and social phobia.

– Shari Roan

http://latimesblogs.latimes.com/booster_shots/2008/09/some-men-carry.html

No wonder some of us have a hard time committing to someone. I came across this nice little article and i thoght it was interesting so I posted it up. If you Google it you will many articles on it, Enjoy.

The Party was F******** Crazy!!

I finally got around to editing and uploading this video. I hope it gives and insight as to how crazy the Party was!

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This is one of my favorite interviews to watch. I think his positive words can be applied to life, women, and friends.

A lot of people often get hurt when a girl rejects them, this video IMO is a great illustration on how a nice lifestyle, good beliefs and staying grounded can (or is ) inner game.

I have to share one of my all time favorite groups.

Now in my younger days I used to sport a shag
When I went to school I carried lunch in a bag
With an apple for my teacher ’cause I knew I’d get a kiss
Always got mad when the class was dismissed
But when it was in session, I always had a question
I would raise my hand to make her stagger to my desk and
help me with my problem, it was never much
Just a trick, to smell her scent and try to sneak a touch
Oh, how I wish I could hold her hand and give her a hug
She was married to the man, he was a thug,
His name was Lee, he drove a Z,
he’d pick her up from school promptly at three o’clock
I was on her jock, yes indeedy I wrote graffiti on the bus
First I’d write her name then carve a plus,
with my name last, on the looking glass,
I seen her yesterday but still I had to let her pass

She keeps on passin me by…

When I dream of fairytales I think of me and Shelly
See she’s my type of hype and I can’t stand when brothers tell me
That I should quit chasin’ and look for something better
But the smile that she shows makes me a go-getter
I haven’t gone as far as asking if I could get with her
I just play by the ear and hope she gets the picture
I’m shootin for her heart, got my finger on the trigger
She could be my broad, and I could be her (nigga)
But, all I can do is stare…
Back as kids we used to kiss when we played truth or dare
Now she’s more sophisticated, highly edu-ma-cated
not at all over-rated, I think I need a prayer
to get in her book and it looks rather dry
I guess a twinkle in her eye is just a twinkle in her eye
Although she’s crazy steppin, I’ll try to stop her stride
Cause I won’t have no more of this passin me by

Time for me to voice my opinion of not even pretendin she didn’t have me
Sprung like a chicken, chasing my tail like a doggie
She was kind of like a star, thinking I was like a fan
Damn, she looked good, down side: she had a man
He was a rooty-toot, a nincompoop
She told me soon your little birdie’s gonna fly the coop
She was a flake like corn and I was born not to understand
By lettin her pass I proved to be a better man

She keeps on passin me by…

Now there she goes again, the dopest Ethiopian
And now the world around me be gets movin in slow motion
when-ever she happens to walk by - why does the apple of my eye
overlook and disregard my feelings no matter how much I try?
Wait, no, i did not really pursue my little princess with persistance;
And I was so low-key that she was unaware of my existance
From a distance I desired her, secretly admired her;
Wired her a letter to get her and it went:
My dear, my dear, my dear, you do not know me but I know you very well
Now let me tell you about the feelings I have for you
When I try, or make some sort of attempt, I symp
Damn I wish I wasn’t such a wimp!
‘Cause then I would let you know that I love you so
And if I was your man then I would be true
The only lying I would do is in the bed with you
Then I signed sincerely the one who loves you dearly, PS love me tender
The letter came back three days later: Return to Sender
Damn!

She keeps on passin me by…
She keeps passing me by.

I finally got around to uploading Part 3 .

This is a much smaller file and its real short. Thanks to Alpha M for reminding me to up this.

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So I have been trying to get myself into shape. I have been trying to eat right and hit the gym as much as I can.

This F****** Sux!!! Its A lot of Hard Work!!! Now I understand why there are a lot of people out of shape. I Also understand why there are alot of people who take BC and never go anywhere. After you break it all down one of the key factors that it comes down to is SELF DISCIPLINE!!

Self-discipline is the ability to get yourself to take action regardless of your emotional state.

Ever have that feeling where you want to go to the gym but you feel a lil tired or you think to yourself I can go tomorrow? What about when you go out into the field and you want to game you want to get a HB but you are just not feeling it?

Both have the same similarities; if you are new to working out and are not yet in a state where you feel committed you get these feelings that make you drop out from working out. Either you dont go often enough or you really deep down inside don’t want to look and feel good.

Now when one is sarging and you just can’t hold your state or you feel like you are not instate it the same feeling that you get when you are not committed to working out. Now one might go out to a venue but its not because we want to sarge but because we can get some type of stimulation from it. This stimulation can substitute our feeling of accomplishment when we do actually sarge. Unlike the gym you can come up with reasons to go to the local watering hole. Now when it comes to the gym you really can’t come up with many reason to go.

Self-discipline is just like a muscle it develops just like a muscle. The more you work it out the better and stronger it gets. Just as everyone has different muscular strength, we all possess different levels of self-discipline. But not everyone has developed their self-discipline to the same degree.

Now its also a mistake to over train your self-discipline just as you can over train when weight lifting. It’s a mistake to try to push yourself too hard when trying to build self-discipline. If you try to transform your entire life overnight by setting dozens of new goals for yourself and expecting yourself to follow through consistently starting the very next day, its not going to work most likely you will fail. it is like a person going to the gym for the first time ever and packing 500 pounds on the bench press.

So if you find it hard to go out and maintain (get) into state Do Not try to go out 5x a week it will only frustrate you. Start smaller go out for 2x a week and set your goals, once you have accomplished them tack on another day and so on.

No matter where you are at you can always make room for improvement. Just don’t make the mistake of comparing yourself with other people. If you are weak then everyone will seen stronger if you are strong then everyone will seem weak, so there is no point to this. The more disciplined you become, the easier life gets. Challenges that were once impossible for you will eventually seem like very easy..