Latino Gentlemen

So once again I feel like crap I think I got a sinus infection this time. I don’t know why but as of late I have been getting sick  more often. I try to take care of myself and my body but I guess I will have wait it out and possibly go get a check up by a DR.

Anyway it’s Saturday  and one of my natural friends calls me up and says he wants to go out. He said he has read and heard some good reviews on this place by his house. So I decided to give it a shot even though I am under the weather, boy was that a mistake. So I just in the shower take a couple of aspirins and away I go.

I get to his house and he brings some beer so we can pre-party before we get in. I ask what type it is he replies with a “I don’t know”. It turns out it was left over beer that no one drank that another friend took the day before. He jumps in and away we go. The venue was only 10 min away from his place and we get their with plenty of time to spare so we pop the brews open.

WOW! That was the worst beer I have ever had! Holy Shit! I didn’t know they made crap like that. I could barely finish 1 can. That beer made me want to shit, burp, and vomit at the same time.

So we walk over to the venue and it is a place that has a very strict dress code and it looks lie and older crowd. We check out the line and decide that this place might not be for us. Lucky for us I know another venue around the corner that free. We walk over and there is a small line. There is about 3 people in front of us so we get in and wait. About 5 min later there is close to 10  people, now 15 min later there is about 25 people waiting and there is now a second line across from us. At this point we know that no one is getting in and it is not worth it to wait.

We decide to walk around and see what kind of trouble we can start. On the way to our initial venue we saw a venue that looked like there was some bikers in front of it. We decide to go check it out . Right as we are walking up there are 2 fine hbs walking in.  The bouncer asked the girls if we were with them and they replied with a big “NO”. Me and my friend playfully begin to give them shit for letting two studs as ourselves pass by.

We get in and to our surprise it a nice venue with a good ratio of women to guys. It is an all Latino crowd so we fit right in.  The first room was playing so top 40s and the second room had some kick ass 80s music. All the girls there where average looking latinas and the guys there looked like 1) they had no game 2) they had a girl with them.

After having the worst beer on the planet anything you have after that tastes AMAZING! My Corona tasted soooo good.

So everyone knows I like tattoos and piercings but in this venue the girls all looked bland to me. They were all decent looking and beautiful in their own way but they just didn’t catch my eye.

But the all of a sudden out the corner of my eye I spot a tattooed shoulder and my head whips over and its 2 girls with tattoos and they came all rocker looking. They stood out among everyone, this was not their scene but I now had a chance to meet my type of girls.

Me and my friend walk over to the bar so I can get a closer look. My friend take it upon himself to open and the girls and they look right past him straight at me. I attribute this to my seductive eye contact that I have honed over my years of talking and seducing women. :0)

I could tell I didn’t need anything fancy since they gave an AI so I went in and complimented one of the girls on her hair.

Ran some basic colds reads to BT spike and shot into comfort. At this point I realized that I dropped the energy to soon and the music was taking her attention away from me so I went back and ran some more BT, now looking back at it I should have grabbed her and took her out to the dance floor. After all she was feeling that music and it would have been an easy BT spike. Now to make sure her attention was on me I decided to take the BT phase a little further than I needed to. I over BT spiked and I blew her fuse, she just turned away and stood a couple of feet away.

So after that this Amog takes that opportunity and runs with. He looks like a greaser/rocker and he knows she might like him since he is one of the few rocker guys in the venue I guess he figured having a commonality would get his foot in the door.

He walks over to me 1st and greets me and hand me a card, turns out he is some kind of promoter for a band. Then he hands my target a card and begins to run game.

At this point I knew I was still in due to the compliance tests that she past, the only problem was I didn’t get a chance to let her know I can be a low energy grounded person.

I know my Body language and the way I come across so I knew

• I am not they type to chase after a girl since I am a low energy guy. It would look incongruent if I try to come back in high energy and try to befriend the guy.
• I am latino so I dont want to try to caveman her back from the guy since I dont want to come off  like the jelouse type
• I know I had some of the highest passive value in that place so if I didnt gain her attention back correctly I felt like I would come of  a little needy.

So I decided to give myself a break from her because:

• I needed to check back with my friend
• I ran pretty solid game and I knew I social proofed myself enough for all the other girls to see.
• The Amog had bad Body Language so I knew he wasnt going anywhere.

I find my freind walking towards me and I could tell he had a couple of drinks.

(F) is for friend.

Me: What’s up

F: Yo, What do you think of this girl (points to a seated girl ~8 feet away)

Me:  She looks good.

F: Yo, I think that scrub with no game wants to talk to her, I can tell he cant even stand up straight. Fuck THAT! I am going to talk to her!

Just as he says that and takes the 1st step towards the girl she looks up at him.

F: Whoops.. I think she heard me.

Me: (laughing my ass off) I think she heard also.

F: Thats why I shouldn’t talk to girls when I drink.

We both have a good chuckle and walk towards an open table. I sit down and he stands.

All of a sudden 4 girls roll up to that table smile at me and sit down! In my head I am thinking “YEAAHH” you hve to love social proof and high passive value! But unfortunately 2 of them are HUGE! The only skinny one gets scooped up by friend immediately and of they go to the dance floor. So I am now stuck with 2 HUGE girls and one that would look real good if she lost 15lbs and got a better fashion sense(aka 15lbs). So I decide to shoot the shit with them and engage the thinnest one.

Then out of nowhere the 2 big girls as me to dance with all of them on the dance floor! Thats when I got the little light bulb! This was my ticket back in with my original target.

I said sure I will dance, I got up and took the lead and took all 3 girls to a spot in the dance floor where I knew I could be seen by more girls and my original target. I made sure I danced with the thinnest girl plus I kept her BT high. From past experieces I knew 1 of 2 things would happen.

1. If you run a jealousy plot line strong enough the target will actually take you away from the HB you are talking to.
2. If that doesn’t happen they will give you proximity so you can open again.

Sure enough after 15 min of dancing I see my OG target come towards me with her friend. She walks right through the dance floor towards my direction but not exactly towards me. I knew this was it, if I missed this window it would be over.

As soon as she came close enough I grabbed her arm and merged her with my dance partner.

Me: Hey, Have you met my friend.

15lbs: No,

Me: (To my OG target) He this is….

They Introduce each other and I take my target and begin to dance with her and I drop 15lbs. She is left alone on the dance floor.

Now out of NOWHERE!!! My targets friends swoops in and introduces herself to 15lbs and She Ran Interference!

That probably has to be the best female wing out there, she totaly knew what was happening and she jumped in and took the other girl. I danced for a good 20 min with my target and friend danced at least for 15 with 15lbs before she sat her down to give us alone time.

I took my target back to the bar and chated a bit, I ran some comfort and number closed. By this time I knew I could escalate and get a make out but I opted not to for these reasons.

1. I was under the weather and didn’t want to slober on her
2. I didnt want to be the make out guy.
3. I got the logistics but she lived 35 min from the venue in another county and I lived 25 min from the venue in the opposite direction.

So knowing me I didnt want to settle and I wanted to push it, so after I got I hug I began to nibble on her neck and up towards her ear.

All in all a good night In the back of my head I knew had the logistics been better and I was feeling  healthy this could have been a SNL.

So its Friday night and I am again under the weather. My leg has fully recovered but now I have a wrist problem. It seems that when it rains it pours.

So APB asked me if I wanted to head out, I said sure I need to clear my head I went to work earlier but came back because I was under the weather. I felt like this might get my mind off things. So I decide to take a nap before I head  out.

After my nap I realize that I slightly over slept.

I jump in the shower and get all sexed up for the ladies.

Next thing I know Sexual chocolate swings over to my place and we all head out.

Here is where things get a little weird we decide to go to xyz venue, I disagree since I believe they are some what prejudice at the door. So after that APB decides that we should check out QRS so we swing over there. Upon arrival we notice that it is a totally Asian venue. After careful consideration we decide to go over to GHI venue and see if we could get in.

SO we get to GHI venue and there is a long line and it looks like we wont be able to get in. After another moment of careful consideration we decide to go over to DEF venue down the street. Upon arrival once again we notice that we wont be able to get in since there was a special engagement at the venue and tickets were required to enter.

As a last resort we decide to walk over to ABC venue since we have been there but feel like it has died down a bit.

We get there and there is no line plus as soon as we walk in it look almost half empty.

Little did we know that the venue connects to another venue! For some reason both venues were connected and all you needed was a little wrist band to be able to walk into both.

Well being PUAs we just walked past the security guard and proceeded to roam around both venues freely.

Of course me being me I look around for any tattooed girls…

APB spots one by the bar and say ” There is a tatted girl” He then says “Open that girl and I will get a round of shots!” I am thinking to myself SWEET I slide on over to the HB and realize that she is a lot older from up close and she is also Asian. I run my game and she gets pulled away by her friends, it turns out they are celebrating a B-day. I pull over the B-day girl get and give a hug and kiss on the cheek plus i wish her a happy b-day.

Not bad for a warm up.

Next APB opens a 2 set of Asian Girls, Sexual Chocolate runs interference on the obstical. Apb then introduces me to the girl he opened. I say hello and 3 seconds later she says “Thank you, Nice to meet you!”

At this point I notice 2 things:

1. She is what people refer to as a fob

2. I have to run Asian girl game and drop my Hollywood girl game.

I have been doing a lot of day game with an alumnus called TANK and I remember him saying when her runs game on a FOB he just asks a lot of questions.

Also another Alumnus Sight once said keep the kino to a minimum and don’t expect IOIs right of the bat.

So I just went into basic interview mode asking question about her. I felt like I asked about 50 question back to back! I guess it worked since she kept talking and even began to ask me some questions. I got the number close and set up a time bridge but since I have no experience with FOBs we shall see where this goes.

The next set was and eye opener for me. I like to think of myself as witty and original plus spontaneous. So sometime I feel like I have to be original with something or it wont be fun the other person. I do not like to feel as if the other person sees me as average or mundane.

So I open a black girl.

I opened and began to BT spike when she threw out a statement that made me drop the ball…

She said:

“C’mon, now. You’re the type of guy that has good game”

Now I have gotten complimented on my openers before so I am used to women catching me but the way she said it was different.  Her tone wasn’t a tone that compliments, it also wasn’t a tone that is meant as a insult.

She saw right through me she basically said game recognizes game!

After this I knew that she 100% knew what I was doing and were I was going to take the conversation. She saw my game plan laid out in front of her and then it happened… I felt like I couldn’t make this PU fun for her. It is one thing to  called out but another to be figured out.  I honestly said to myself “Whats the point now.” After all she did call me out and she was still standing there talking to me!

I continued my game plan and got the number but then out of left field she comes back and puts me on my toes again.

I say ” I am going to call your number right now so my number shows up on your phone”

She says ” HA!  Nope. Balls in my court now, you actually have to call me now and get me on the phone”

With that she walk off into the crowd and I was left there standing with my phone in my hand. Not only did she see right though me but she had some good game also. After scratching my head and trying to think things out I walk over to Sexual Chocolate and ask him for some input.

Me: Yo this girl saw right through my game… She even said ” You are the type that has good game”.

SC: So..and?

Me: Well then what ever I do she knows its just game. It not going to be fun and original.

SC: Just say thanks and let her know you know that you are smooth.

Me: I know that but if she knows what I am doing then it wont work, right? since she know the objective behind it.

SC: She still stayed and talked to you?

Me: Yeah…Of course.

SC: So would you rather fuck her or sit there and try to be original?

Me: Hm… Good point.

SC: She stayed and told you that you have game…

Me: Shit you are right.

So after this I walk over to APB and pose the same question and scenario.

APB: OK so lets say your fucking a girl and she says how good you are

Me: Ok…I am familiar with that.

APB: SO do you stop and try to be original or do you keep fucking?

Me: Point taken!

* The next day I talked to Tank and asked him about his Asian Game.

Me: Yo..I ran your Asian girl game I asked a shit load of questions. I must have asked 50 questions!

Tank: WTF. That’s is a lot.

Me: Yeah but you said ask questions…

Tank: you ask a few to find out what DHVs to throw in. For example: Money, Family, Social Status.

Me: Oh. well then I did a little over kill lol.

Me: well I will see where this goes.

Over all I learned a couple of things and I consider it a good nigt.

Hulk Smash

Damn its been a while since I have updated this. Its not because I havent been up too nothing I have always tried to creat more passive value for myself.

So a little about me.

I have always been very skinny up until my college days. That’s when I began to gain weight but not in a good way. If you are skinny then you know that gaining weight because you don’t exercise  and have a bad eating lifestyle wont make you look good. I once heard that skinny guys who get fat end up looking like ET.

Ever since I heard that I have tried to keep myself in the gym but if you do something for the wrong reasons then the motivation for it dies very fast.

As of last year I think and believe I found the right reasons to get into shape.

So for now when I am not updating this I am in the gym trying to get a hard body!

After all when a girl meets me and have never interacted with a Latino I can set a positive reference for us in her mind.

P.S I did (or tried) to grow my hair long but I caved in and cut it a couple of weeks ago.

I just updated the RSS Feed on here. There is an icon now, if anyone has trouble with it let me know, just drop me a comment.

My random thoughts.

*Well I made some girls blog… Boy did she vent!
* Getting into shape if fucking hard I am still struggling to do it.
* L.A has way too many PUAs (not that its a problem)
* I think I am getting lazy with my pick up, I dont feel like I am putting effort into it anymore.
* I am going to stop drinking for a while.
* I am starting to bowl with hopes at geting good.
* I need to start Playing poker again.
* My time management has got better but needs more work.
* I need a cooking pot.
* I need to get back to some type of art.

So its another Saturday…well not exactly. You see today a little someone called Karma came and gave me a visit.

Usually I like to think of myself as a nice host, sure sometimes I could have some more food or drinks, but there always is enough liquor.

But like they say Karma is a Bitch and my stomach is feeling the full force.

I had a nice evening with some good friends and alum’s. The venue had a weird feel to it, I don’t know what is was about it, I just couldn’t put my finger on it. Something was off, somewhat like an old baseball cap that has just been washed.

There was only one girl the whole night that struck me as elegant and beautiful.

I cant help but notice her walk by, I am sure I wasn’t the only one. All of a sudden the landscape that surrounded me turned bright and warm. I knew I had to try and go forward and put myself out there. A moment like this is where memories are born and great stories are told.

She turned and began to walk in the opposite direction, Her hips swayed elegantly to the rhythm of the music.

She is the kind of beauty that I hope to find.

As I pace myself and try to catch up she disappears behind a security guard and is alone in this empty and cold section of the venue.

Surely I think to myself this is a sign…

This has played out perfect . I can walk up to her look her in the eye and say something that will warm her heart and give me the joy of putting a smile one someones face. There are no lights, there is no music the distraction are all but gone. All that is left is for me to make that small journey over to her.

But as we all know life is not fair.

Half way there this big black security guard ropes of the barren section. There she was only yards away and I could not get to her.

Its as this barren section of the venue foretold my future, it was a manifestation of what I was going to feel.

Me:yo, whats up! Illl be quick ima go talk to her, ill be right back
Security: Nope.
Me: Ill be quick… (I attempted to walk through)
Security: Nope! No one gets through.
Me:What? you mean your going to cock block me like that?(smiling of course)
Security: Yup.. (he has an evil smile to him)
Me: Damn.
Security: Just wait she will come out.
Me: How do I know that? know I will never know. What if we get married have kids and live happily ever after? See?
Me: If it don’t happen I am blaming you (smiling)
Security: Blame me.

I can sense that I am not going to get in and my best shot is to wait it out.

5 min later…She comes out.

My one shot…

I kino turn her and open, she is smiles and I feel good. I am smiling at all the possibilities that can occur.

We chat for a bit, and I realize that I am sucker for blue eyes. No matter what she says or does I am just caught in her gaze. Her eyes just draw me in.

Just as fast as It started it ends…

She is a hired gun and is working the tables.

As she walks away back to the tables I take a last glimpse and out of nowhere I here:

“Happy, See, Still didn’t work”

I turn around and its the same security. He stands there with a big smile on his face. The kind of smile a little kid has as he leaves the circus for first time.

I turn to him and smile, but not just any smile, it’s the smile of completion. I look him straight in the eye and say:

“Hey at least I tried, I’ll see you around”

He give me back a head nod of acknowledgment, and we part ways.

Its the beginning of Karma taking its hold on me. I should have seen or even felt it, but I guess sometimes we all get a little naive.

Earlier this week I had an amazing girl come into my life.

She was smart,tough,kind, over all a very beautiful person in and out. I guess her talent is what brought her into my life. If she hadn’t pursuit her passion then we would have never meet. One thing let to another and we got close, but I had to end it since I don’t think I could reciprocate the feelings.

I was once on the other end and its miserable, so I made myself a promise never to lead anyone if I could not reciprocate the feelings. So I let her know that nothing can happen between us anymore. Unfortunately I might have caused some unintentional pain along the way.

Unfortunately I think I went wrong somewhere and I might have fumbled the ball. Plus factor in a couple of other things that went on and we got ourselves a rather unusual situation.

Overall she is a lovely girl and I definitely want to keep her around. People like her are really hard to find these days.

Next we got this other girl (same week) and boy did I make a wrong turn.

We had a lunch date set up since its when we both had time.

So the previous night I could not sleep to save my life. I was tossing and turning. Something just kept my mind racing and it just wouldn’t stop.

It has been a long time since I experienced birds chirping to sun rising over the city. It was nice but and unpleasant reminder as to my sleeping problem.

Next thing I remember was my room looking hazy and then waking up….

I take a look at my clock and it read 3:00pm!

The kids are playing out on the streets you can hear the traffic off into the distance and I am in bed.

I totally left the poor girl hanging, some friends say I stood her up. I disagree and jokingly say

“Well I scored one back for us guys”

It’s my way of trying to justify my mistakes, but I know I did.

So today is Saturday after a night of clubbing and late night eating my stomach is in pain.

I have spend the last 12hrs in bed watching the world pass me by through my window which slowly dims as the sunset sets.

So in the end Karma wins, in its cruel and twisted humor it has got it revenge.

It is as if it knew what I had done, it understood that I wasted something valuable and precious that was not mine and that’s other peoples feelings and time.

So I lay here feeling pain wasting away losing my time.

WOW. It has been a while, but I am back. Been through some stuff and I have also been working on other things.

For now here is a youtube clip.

I take a look at this every time I feel like I do not want to hit the gym and it pumps me back up.

The Guy in the clip is Mariusz Pudzianowski he is a 5 time World’s Strongest Man: 2002, 2003, 2005, 2007 and 2008.
The name of the song is Roy Jones Jr. – Can’t Be Touched

OK so I was out with a good friend and Asian Alumni and he brought up a good point.

“ I am Asian and I don’t want to come of as the stereotypical asexual Asian.”

So his point was to get sexual or hit the D phase as soon as possible this way the White girl wouldn’t place him in that box. He wanted to make it clear that he was a sexual guy and not the typical stereotype.

Now in theory this is a nice idea.

If you go sexual in an interaction then you must be a sexual person, right?

Well not exactly… if we break this down we can see how this is a good and bad idea. Now we have to acknowledge 2 sides.

1.The Identity Stereotype
2.The Game Aspect

Being stereotyped while approaching or interacting with a women from a different ethnic background can make it a little tough. Not only do you know have to game her but now you have to lift yourself out of the stereotype.

Now here is where the Idea can seem like a good one. Why would you make yourself work twice as hard when you can knock out the stereotype and focus on the game part. If you let her know that you are sexual then all you have to focus on is the game part. Sounds like a good plan from this angle right?

Well there is a difference between being asexual, not being non-sexual, being sexual and just plain horny.

1.Asexual: This type of persona will for sure end up in the friends zone. This type will not make his intentions clear at all at any point of any interaction. Physically this type will not escalate and might even refrain from making any type of contact. The Key point here though is he lacks any type of communication and sub communication that is Dominant! There is no Dominance in an asexual guy.

2.Not being non-sexual: This type does not come of as the typical stereotype. Also he doesn’t scream sexual. He lives in between. This is an Ideal place to start an interaction or to be viewed as. This is they type that comes of confident and dominant. When he enters a typical interaction he is glad to lead. Women know that he has some experience in dealing with the situation that he has created. This type will turn into the sexual guy once he has established some type of attraction.

3.Sexual: In order to be sexual there has to be some type of attraction. You can not be a sexual person in the eyes of women if she does feel any attraction. This type make his intentions clear and physically moves the interaction forward. The guys who can go sexual very fast usually have high passive value to know how to turn on women fast.

4.Horny: This type is fast to demonstrate his sexual side. He is willing to push/Force the interaction forward with disregard to the females attraction and comfort levels. “If it feels good to you, you’re doing it wrong!”

Now some key game factors to remember are:

1.The D phase is the D Phase so it comes after A,B,C for a reason. Can you bypass this? Yes but it’s not very common and much more advanced.
2.Escalation with out attraction and disregard of her comfort level comes of weird to a female. Remember that it is OK to pull back also and disqualify, there is no need to constantly push it.
3.There is a difference between being asexual and not coming of as non-sexual

You see he was so focused on not being categorized as the typical asexual Asian that he forgot to look at everything that he was doing right. He got so caught up that he forgot the game aspect of it. He was pushing it so fast that everything was out of sync.

Remember the key is to have tight game so that you change her view on stereotypes(value giving), don’t fall into trying to change her views on a stereotype so you can game (value taking).

If you go into a interaction and are worried about being seen as non-sexual or stereotyped then you are going in beta already. You are allowing your insecurities get the best of you, your fears are motivating your interaction and not your desire to meet the women of your dreams.The goal of spiting game isn’t just to show her that you are a sexual person. Everyone should game as if there was/is no such thing as stereotypes. Take it step by step and game properly.

OK so I have done some revisions on my online profile and send out a couple of more messages.

Still no responses back! This is really not my cup of tea. I feel like all this is out of my hands. I have no control over this. This feels so lifeless, I feel nothing its almost robotic.

So Far I have:
* Added Pictures that DHV me
* I went from having 2 pictures of me only to having 6 (Me and my pits, 2 of me, 1 with a female, 1 of my place)
* I beefed up my bare bone profile and have solid content
* I sent out generic messages.

What I Need to do:
* Learn how to message people
* Maybe play around with the content on my profile
* Switch Up the pictures to other DHV (passive value) topics

So when I have sent out messages to people I made sure it wasn’t the hottest girls since there is a good chance that my profile isn’t jazzy enough yet. This way I don’t blow my chances with the hot ones.

On a side note I have got more views since I beefed up my profile.

So I am at the gym and I have been working out rather hard the last couple of weeks.

Tonight was the night that I move up in weight, I was excited! I felt good, I had a good pump going, everything was on track.

So I added two extra 5lbs plates…

* OK! Feels good*

So I add another 2 5lbs plates, And wait for my mp3 player to hit the right moment in the song (Dilated Peoples – The Eyes have it)

* Damn this song is sick! Gotta love Dilated*

* Damn the song is over, its now or never*

So I Take a deep breath and lift!!! The song ends and the next one starts as I lift the bar.

*Damn this intro is nice*

Then it comes….

Hey, Welcome to this weeks episode of the Better Asian Man podcast!

*Holy shit wtf…*

All of a sudden I feel an immense pressure on my chest…Fuck the weight is on my CHEST!

*Shit!!!! WILLIAM!!!!!!*

I use all my might and strength and push it up.

*Fuck….WILLIAM…ARRRGHHH*

I let out the biggest grunt the gym has ever heard.

* Fuck you William!!! ARRRGGGHHHH*

Then I proceed to know out 5 reps!

Then as I lay there taking in deep breaths I wonder how the fuck did this get in my gym music?

I sit up and get the head nods from some of the big fucker in the gym. My Chest is dead I cant feel it…

You know it was a good work out when you have trouble taking of your shirt after in the locker room.

Oh and if you are wondering what I was listening to before William popped into my head…